Hello there! Welcome to the club. It’s packed in here. Quick, someone crack a window.
Seriously though, if you’re second-guessing your wedding dress, it’s safe to say you’re not alone. In fact, it’s hard not to doubt your decision when you’re probably being bombarded with alternative options to the outfit you chose every time you scroll your phone.
It’s the blessing and curse of social media. Instagram might’ve influenced your dress decision and now it’s making you question it. *shakes fist*
Did we question our wedding dress choices after we bought them? Absolutely. But know this: you were in a stable frame of mind when you chose it. You liked it. Enough to potentially fork out a not-insignificant amount of cash.
As time goes on, new things naturally become less shiny in your mind, so it stands that your wedding dress (or outfit) might’ve lost its sparkle months or even years down the track. But of course, it’s your wedding day and you want to feel sparkly. Your “best self” as they say, and there’s no doubt that what you wear plays a big part.
Given most of us aren’t in a position to just turf an expensive garment and buy a new one (nor would Mother Nature approve), it’s reasonable to try and work through these *very normal* feelings and see if you can’t reignite the warm and fuzzy feelings you had when the outfit first caught your eye.
Read on for some advice on what to do if you’re second-guessing your wedding outfit.
To reiterate: wedding dress FOMO is basically a rite of passage for anyone getting married. If money grew on trees, we’re certain we would see a lot more couples seriously re-thinking their outfit choices. Take a breath, be kind to yourself – it’s going to be okay. These tips should help:
If you really do decide you’re no longer into your original choice, here are some options:
Ultimately, the ball is in your court but our take home advice if you’re second-guessing your wedding dress is to see if you can’t fall back in love with it first. Sometimes, it’s just the nerves casting doubt over your decisions and at the end of the day, your partner would marry you in your pyjamas (which come to think of it, isn’t an entirely bad idea. Any takers?).
Featured image: Madeline Kate Photography.
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